A Note To Our Loyal Followers and Friends

We've received more than a few emails lately addressing a rumour buzzing around that we will be taking our leave of Lily Lemontree and this site.
Those rumours, my friends, are true.
But fear not, for we are not taking leave of our mission to revive the charming arts of good manners and gracious living, we're just having a much needed makeover of sorts.
A new name.
A new website.
And a new blueprint to make it easier for us to spread our message to young and old, from Baby Boomers to Millennials, Gen's X to Z.
For it's the youngest of our society that seems to need our help the most and yet we have left them with no clear examples of how to live with grace, charm and kindness towards our fellow man.
The great Fred Astaire once said "The hardest job kids face today is learning good manners without seeing any."
At our new home 'Things Your Mother Should Have Told You' we will try to change the landscape of that vanishing example, picking up where our moms left off with a daily dose of good manners, commonsense and savvy life tips to raise a society of gracious grown-ups!

We are live at our new site and on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram where we invite you to join us This page will continue to be accessible for the near future until we have fully completed our move.

Thank you!
xo Lily Lemontree

Where's Waldo?

I guess the better question these days is:
'Where's Lily?'
We are happy to say that while we are still here for the time being, we have begun the transition to a new virtual home!
We've been posting less and less because we are slowly switching over to a new site that we have gotten up and running and with today being Mother's Day, we couldn't have thought of a better day to introduce you all!

Please follow us on our sister site "Things Your Mother Should Have Told You" 

We are picking up where your mom left off with daily reminders of the life lessons she tried her hardest to teach you and possibly a few things she might have missed 😃
So head on over to our new site and tell us what you think!

And lest we forget, Happy Mother's Day to all the amazing women out there that we are lucky to call Mom 💗💗💗

CHIC THIS WEEK Best Dressed for March 10-16, 2019

Who is your choice for best dressed this week?
Don't forget to scroll down to vote!

In Gucci
At a visit to the Henry Fawcett Children's Centre in London, England

In Stella McCartney
At the People's Postcode Lottery Charity Gala in Edinburgh, Scotland

In Rosa Bloom
('Chiara' sandals by Sophia Webster)
At the 2019 iHeartRadio Music Awards in Los Angeles, California

In Alex Perry
(pumps by Casadei, jewellery by Dana Rebecca, Sara Weinstock and Nouvel Heritage)
At the 2019 iHeartRadio Music Awards in Los Angeles, California

In Dorothee Schumacher/Zeynep Arcay
At the opening of Neiman Marcus at Hudson Yards in NYC, New York

In Oscar de la Renta
At Disney's "Dumbo" premiere in Los Angeles, California

In Elie Saab
At the 'Pretty Little Liars: The Perfectionists' premiere in Hollywood, California

In Erdem
('Deneuve' pumps by Aquazzura, clutch by Givenchy)
At a visit to Canada House in London, England

Who is best dressed for March 10-16, 2019?

The Duchess of Cambridge in Gucci
Amal Clooney in Stella McCartney
Taylor Swift in Rosa Bloom
Nicole Scherzinger in Alex Perry
Katie Holmes in Dorothee Schumacher/Zeynep Arcay
Thandie Newton in Oscar de la Renta
Sofia Carson in Elie Saab
The Duchess of Sussex in Erdem


In 2019, aging gracefully ain't for the faint of heart.
I am not saying that I don't fully appreciate the blessing from above it actually is to be allowed to grow old because there are a few things in this life that we are privileged, practically blessed to experience and making it to a ripe old age is definitely one of them.
Heck yeah, I want to live long enough to blow out 100 candles on my birthday cake! I WANT the chance to grow old (as opposed to the alternative)...but 'look old'? That is the part I'm not so sure about. I get it that growing old and looking old come part and parcel but it seems like everywhere I turn, there is some new procedure, some new product line, some new something that promises to prolong the inevitable.

And I know what everyone is saying out there; that '50 is the new 30' and that age ain't nothing but a number. We hear it all the time and while it does make one feel a little better to see the likes of JLo, Gwyneth, Demi and the rest of the 'north of 40' gang strutting their age-defying selves all over the place proving that it can be done, the cold hard truth is that it takes a village; a literal village made up of make-up artists, dermatologists, stylists, personal trainers, medical professionals, nutritionists, facialists, etc. and that is just the tip of the proverbial iceberg.
Oh and did I forget to mention the pockets full of cash it takes to pay for the village! That is probably the hardest part of the pill to swallow because most of us simply don't have the massive bank accounts to support 'our village'. One wrong misstep and you've blown your budget and the results you end up with are less than what you were expecting.
So what's with this late-night confession about not wanting to look like I missed the party-boat cruise to the fountain of youth? Because I think I represent the majority of 'north of forties' (and fifties, sixties and beyond) who given the real 411 on what is out there regarding procedures, regimes, nutritional guidance and what they can really do or not do for you, it might make digging into your pocket a little easier (mine too!)
I used to watch a YouTube series also called the Younger Games that starred this awesomely funny actress who would go around reporting on all the latest available out there for those of us who wanted a little tweak here or a little pinch of something there AND make you howl with laughter in the process. Unfortunately, she dropped out of sight early last year and while it was initially a disappointment for me because a) she was beyond entertaining and b) she gave the real goods on what all this 'stuff'' out there could do for you. She was like a beautiful little guinea pig, trying things out and reporting back with a whole lot of humour about the stuff we really wanted to hear about; what was worth the time and money and what was not.
And so one night I thought "why not pick up where she dropped off" and with that, this new series on Lily Lemontree was born!

Next up, the Good, the Bad and the Ugly on facial filler!


"I never expect anything. I just feel things in my gut and I do them. If something sounds exciting and interesting, I do it-and then I worry about it later. Doing new things takes a lot of energy and strength. It's very tiring to make things happen, to learn how to master a skill, to push fears aside. Most people would rather just go with the flow; it's much easier. But it's not very interesting.
And as I always say, you have to be interested to be interesting."

Iris Apfel